Why do some people with ADHD self-medicate with argument? What does that phrase even mean—to self-medicate with arguments? Simply, it refers to the stimulation some people get by provoking an argument—consciously or not.First, nothing about ADHD is universal, and this is an example. Many people with ADHD are, if anything, argument-averse. And certainly, you needn't have ADHD to be an … [Keep Reading...]
ADHD and Sex: Post-Orgasm Irritability, Jerkdom
What does post-orgasm irritability have to do with ADHD? Maybe nothing. Or maybe a great deal. As with all things concerning this highly variable condition, "your mileage may vary."But think about it. Lovemaking, shopping, and … [Read More...]
What Might Kill Me?: An Astronaut’s Tips for ADHD Adults
Astronauts might have particularly useful tips for adults with ADHD—and everybody else.When you sit in a spaceship hurtling around the Earth at 17,500 miles per hour, you learn something about managing risk—and panic. As I … [Read More...]
Driving While Distracted: ADHD Hits the Road
Count on it: Whoever created this hilariously true-to-life "A.D.D. Man!" video knows that yes, Adult ADHD can affect driving behavior, too.Buckle your seatbelts and watch out for Road Rage Ralph and Sally Soccer Mom! Click on the arrow … [Read More...]
Talkin’ Trash: Targeting ADHD Treatment Goals
You might be surprised. It's not on the symptom list. But "not taking out the trash" is a common complaint among the partners of adults with ADHD.It certainly was for me. Twenty years ago, before or just after diagnosis, my … [Read More...]
“Blindsided” by ADHD Diagnosis: One Wife’s Story
How many relationships are imperiled by unrecognized ADHD? I suspect it's in the millions, just in North America. No matter how many "and then my spouse was finally diagnosed" stories I hear, each one moves me—and motivates me to keep … [Read More...]
ADHD and Sleep: Puzzling The Pieces
ADHD and sleep is like any other ADHD-related topic: It's complex and varies with the individual. I'm constantly struck by the widespread perception that anything about ADHD is simple—or cookie-cutter. Nothing could be further from the … [Read More...]
Misdiagnosed Until 39: “Best Week of My Life”
(She had sought help from a string of mental-health professionals—for decades—with her ADHD misdiagnosed as depression and anxiety. Again and Again. I've met many women and men with this experience. Most recently, however, I met a … [Read More...]
Research: ADHD, Balance, and “Postural Sway”
Can ADHD create physical balance problems? Yes, we're hearing more about ADHD-related challenges with something called "motor control." Simply put, balance. I'll share a few examples and then results from a very … [Read More...]
