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September 2008

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In his lectures, neuropsychiatrist Daniel Amen often says that, before one of his children marries, he wants to examine a brain scan of the spousal candidate. Why? Because brain deficits aren’t always obvious. Sometimes mental illness reveals itself only over time, and with stress. In fact, we often initially misperceive a person’s brain deficits as positive qualities. Much to our peril.

For example, consider the “decisive decision-maker.” Golly, you think to yourself, someone so cocksure and confident must know the score, right? You know that you could never act so confident unless you had the goods, right?

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Lunch rush was over, but distractions remained numerous inside the La Bou cafe just off Highway 49 in Auburn. Blenders whirred out smoothies every few minutes, laughter erupted from a nearby group, a young worker noisily cleared tables.

Yet, through it all, Cass Brown Capel stayed focused – eyes locked on her interviewer, the need to interject random thoughts stifled, attention not straying to her daughter, Ariana, who was sitting placidly next to her.

You would have no inkling that Capel, a 54-year-old psychologist from Auburn, has been diagnosed with the adult version of attention deficit/hyperactivity disorder since 1991.
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So begins the main story on Adult ADHD, by reporter Sam McManis, in last Sunday’s Sacramento Bee. Immediately, readers learn that ADHD probably isn’t what they thought it was — a childhood ondition that makes someone fidgety or flighty.

Read the full story here: http://www.sacbee.com/749/story/1234819.html

Thanks to the Bee, McManis, and especially Cass and John Capel, for sharing their story in order to educate the public on this vastly underdiagnosed condition.

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This article by reporter Sam McManis is short, but it goes straight to the heart of the matter. (I just discovered it is a sidebar to a much longer article — see next post.) I’m very grateful to read one of the rare articles on Adult ADHD and relationships that doesn’t deny, minimize, or otherwise sugarcoat the challenges of untreated or unacknowledged ADHD.

http://www.sacbee.com/273/story/1229847.htm

We need more articles like this. Because until Adult ADHD is better understood, people will continue to suffer needlessly. That would be a shame, because we have terrific solutions; we just need better awareness.

If you have a minute, please leave a comment on the article at the Sacramento Bee site, thanking Mr. McManis and the Sacramento Bee for this article. We can’t blame “the media” for poor coverage of Adult ADHD if we let good coverage like this go unacknowledged. (And unlike websites that pick up stories like this, violating copyright, this newspaper actually pays people to produce strong content.)

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Many of us banged our head against the wall for years, never knowing that we were even dealing with Adult ADHD. The problem wasn’t just our ignorance. No, worse than that, the problem was that we believed the myths — totally wrong ideas about what Adult ADHD is and isn’t.

Respondents to the ADHD Partner Survey explain why they missed the signs of ADHD in their relationships (sometimes for decades) at my other blog, ADHDRollerCoaster.org:

In the next few posts here, I’ll excerpt a chapter from Is It You, Me, or Adult A.D.D.? so we can bust common myths about Adult ADHD one by one.

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“Never in a million years would I have suspected ADHD!” Jennifer explains to the support-group for the partners of adults with ADHD. “I thought ADHD was a hyperactive little boy’s disorder. My husband is Read the rest of this entry »

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